In where do the ladies go I wrote about how you can find massage attendants outside of the massage parlor, by looking in the right places online.
I suggested you visit the adult personals site and search around for ladies that meet your requirements for age, ethnic background etc. Try searching for asian massage for example. These ladies aren't on Craig's List erotic services section. They are running things for themselves, and mixing personal pleasures with work when they meet the right guy.
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