I'll call her Janet. She wrote to me as the woman at home, about her man at my parlor. She wanted to understand why he was spending time in some dark room, anonymous with Ms. Provider. She wanted to know what Ms. Provider "provided", and how her man behaved. She had learned he was a hobbyist, and I think more than anything, she was scared.
Dear Janet:
Just like in the bedroom, no one knows what goes on inside a closed room. I have been in this business for 10 years, and serviced probably 5000 men.
The best part about this job is that I get to treat every new man as if he was completely new - I do not expect him to be like anyone else. It is completely up to him how things go. I do not offer him any extras, just a comfortable caring massage with all the personal service attention that goes along with it (treat him like a king, help him off with his coat, hang up his clothes nicely folded, listen to what he has to say, etc). I am alot like a barber in that I listen more than I talk, and I am alot like a nurse in how I offer remedies for what he tells me needs attention.
A whole lot of guys visit just for that personal attention, and to enjoy tha fact that no one knows what goes on inside the room. Believe it or not, alot of guys come in with their friends, go into separate rooms, and then act as if they got alot of extras, just to be cool. In fact, they got a caring, soft soothing massage and nothing else. Some guys want to mas turbate, and say so. I politely tell them to go ahead but clean up well and I will be back in 10 minutes; then I leave. Some do this before the massage, some do it after.
Many are rude and try and get sex or get me nude or other things. I tell them they are in the wrong place and show them the road if they don't want to go slow with a massage routine. I suspect the ones that seek out sex places are impatient and rude when they come into a new place - that's why it gets them no where. If they want sex for hire, they should go to a brothel, not a massage parlor. Everyone knows the massage places that are just brothels get closed right away, with alot of publicity.
You need to understand your husband. If he wants to pay for sex he will. If you ask me the best place to do that is a private, quiet place where no one knows what goes on behind closed doors. That way he can always deny it, and save the marriage and family from embarassment. How would it look if he went and picked up a street hook-her because he was desperate? Or went to a party and slept with the loose woman everyone knows is loose? Everyone would talk about him, and she would have alot of trouble. Instead he quiety goes his own way and minds his own business. She should be pleased with his discretion - her relationship with her husband is her business.
Lots of guys get body shampoos and enjoy the thrill of standing naked in front of an anonymous woman worker, where they can display a hard on and not be embarassed, or where they get some free touch thrills they can think about later when they are bang ging the wife.
Many guys tell me they try and try to get sex, and when they do they are so disappointed they never go back to that place. It's not the event they are after - it is the hunt. And if your husband is out on the prowl for the hunt or for attention, that is the problem, not the massage parlor.
Remember fatal attraction - it is far worse to get hooked up with some whacko lady as an affair than to get a little attention quietly and under the cover of massage. The professional massagers are in it for money, honey, and are never interested in messing with a guys head, or marriage, or job. Most times, they are helping him keep the stability, and helping him keep out of trouble.
Now you, I wonder about. What fascinates you so much? Ever been for a sensual massage? Women come in too, and are looking for loving caresses and manual release (and they often find it). Do you see how easy it might be to try out something new, like having a woman give you an O, when it is done cleanly and safely behind closed doors, by an anonymous professional, as part of a legitimate massage? With no risk to your marriage? And if you like, you can come in the same time every week for your regular service?
Think about it.. how nice it would be to come into a legitimate appointment for some lower back therapy, and when the door closes and you're laying quietly on a fresh, thick terry towel with soft music and candle light, and your intimate secret massager friend smiles at you and starts gently caressing your ankle, leg, thigh, soft underbelly, and marvels at your newly trimmed triangle while making gentle soft swirlies out of your trim. A friend with a welcoming smile, knowing eyes, and curvaceous supple breasts which you are free to reach over and caress without any concern for boundaries, loyalties, or fear of offense. Go ahead, stare at the lengthening ni pull; if you ask, you may even get a chance to taste it.
And when you're done, you'll still get that great lower back massage, a nice warm shower, and as you walk out the room into the fresh, bright day, you bring your renewed zest for life with you on your way home; on you way to see your man -- the man waiting for you.
It's all perspective honey. It's all a matter of perspective.
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