Let me tell you right up front that this is going to sound like an infomercial guys, and that someone is making money from sales of the Seduction Science series (but not me). A while back I recommended the Seducton Science information to you guys, because I had heard many times from girlfriends of mine how interesting it was, and how accurate it was as a "cook book" for getting the attention of dancers and massagers on a personal level. My partner Carmine is a regular customer of erotic massage and loves erotic dance clubs, and he has owns 3 levels of the Seduction science series. Carmen is no idiot, and has his fair share of ladies paying him personal (not professional) attention.
Well, I finally got around to reading about how to get the personal attention of erotic massagers and erotic dancers it, and I am amazed! I am not much of a fan of pop-psychology stuff, but I do believe it is way cool to be able to meet someone and understand them by just watching their external clues (like how they move their eyes, how they speak, stuff like that). And the psychics are always amazing... the way they can ask 20 questions and know your personality type so well they can guess your behavior. This seduction science stuff is an easy read and very optimistic (which I like) but also very practical. I feel like I actually wrote it form my own experiences!
Anyway, as a woman dealing all day long professionally with men who only want to get into my pants or under my shirt, I can tell you this stuff is *scary* for it's accuracy. I am now committed to reading the whole series, not because I want to get over on my girlfriends (interesting idea!) but because I want to be prepared when you guys start using this stuff on me!
Here's a quick example: On the website they start with some "Fairy Tales" and debunk them. The first is Fairy Tale #1: You've Got To Look Like a GQ Stud (in order to get the attention of beautiful women). They show how this is not correct. But guess what? I can tell you from personal experience, they are so right! We girls know what it takes to look that good, because we have to do it. But we are practical, hard working and practical girls, and we are not backed up by staffs of makeup artists and the like. So if someone looks like a GQ model, they either are a GQ model (and we don't date models -- too high maintenance) or they spend a ton of time making themselves look good. We all know we do not want to spend our little precious 1 on 1 time with someone who thinks so much about themselves!
Personally I go for the big guys... the ones with brawn. Some call them chubby, but I think every man worth my attention has to be a true man, and true men get a bit around the middle once they are over 30. Show me a skinny guy with a six pack and sure I want to touch his stomach, but will I spend my personal time out with him? No way! I am not interested in being told "I have to go to the gym" instead of staying with me, especially when I know that gym is full of model-type babes doing the same thing, just so they can look beautiful for other people. Give me a quiet, smart, strong man every time!
The second "Fairy Tale" says that in order to attract these desirable women, "You Have to Have Money". They talk about ways to take her attention off of the money and put it onto you. Good ideas, but let me tell you why this one hit me personally.
Did you ever meet an erotic dancer or massager who didn't have a lot of money? We have money, honey. Sure, we want more (who doesn't) but we want something else far more.. we want to be loved! That's right, you heard it here first -- we like love more than money.
The problem is we find so much excitement and interest in money, and we get bored so easily, that it might look to you like we just want money. Remember those model-types I mentioned above? The cute guys with the six-pack abs? Those are the guys saying how beautiful massage and dancer girls just want money. They say it because that's their experience. They tried to hook up with us, and the only thing that made them even slightly interesting was money, so that's what we use him for. Otherwise, he's a bore! When he stopped spending his money, we stopped paying attention. Does that mean we want money? No! That means HE needs money to keep my attention, because otherwise he's a boring guy!
Read that again, honey. I HAVE money. I need the attention of a genuine guy, with something to offer that I don't have. I'll even let you in on a secret - if you DON'T have money, I may even find you ATTRACTIVE! That's right, sometimes I need TO BE NEEDED so if a guy is comfortable with himself and his situation, but doesn't have spending money, I AM HAPPY TO PROVIDE IT. Imagine that, this Seducton Science stuff is showing you how to get not only my body but my spending money! Scary stuff!
But don't forget, I am a bit distrusting of men and I also get bored easily :-) That means if you take advantage of my generosity to buy stuff for yourself or stuff I don't think you need.. well you know I am not the perfect girlfriend but hey, you don't have to be the perfect man, right? That's the whole point!
So "Fairy Tale Three" is "You Just have To Be Yourself", and they show that if that was true, you wouldn't have any trouble getting women's attention! Duh. But truthfully, guys, you don't have to be someone else either. You need to be an IMPROVED version of yourself. I haven't read that far, but I imaging the seduction science people will talk about ways to improve your attitude and your listening ability, because they are what I know makes a man an IMPROVED man!
So I told you it would read like an infomercial, but the reasons are so real and personal. In fact, I find this stuff so interesting, I have a suggestion for you guys who find their way into my massage room. First, order the first part of seduction science. Then when you gofor your erotic massage, mention in passing that you are reading a book on how to understand women. I will ask back if it is the Seduction Science series. Then you will know it is me, and let's talk about it because it is so fun and I’d love to share some perspectives. Of course another massager will probably think you're reading "Men are From Mars" or something else, so you will know it's not me, and you didn't give away the fact that you are learning how to seduce women! Good idea? I look forward to it!
